r/AmITheA**hole For Firing My Cheating Dad?

r/AmITheA**hole OP works at his father's company. His mother has an affair with one of the employees at that company. Then, OP's father dies and leaves the entire company to OP. OP's mother then marries the guy she had an affair with, which means that OP's employee is also his step-father. His stepdad starts acting like he owns the place, breaking rules and bossing other people around. OP decides that enough is enough and fires his own stepdad. This pisses off both his mom and his stepfather, leaving him to wonder if he's the butthole here.

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  • After reading comments, I think I was off the mark about Tara. I thought she was justified because people can invite/uninvite whoever they want to their wedding, but she was still a butthole for taking out her pettiness on a child. Tara: 2/5 buttholes for being petty to a kid rSlash: 5/5 buttholes for being wrong on the internet.

    rSlashrSlashСарын өмнө
    • When u heart your own comment

      RolderiusRolderiusӨдрийн өмнө
    • Has there been a person who you rated 6/5 buttholes

      Joei TohJoei Toh3 өдрийн өмнө
    • Thank you for fixing that. I was so mad to hear that you accepted a grown adult for being so childishly petty!! That brother has made a huge mistake marrying such a "woman". I cannot call Tara a woman because she clearly is not. She has succeeded in damaging the family relationship! Sounds like that was her goal! Her pettiness didn't just stop at the kid! It was also revenge against her enemy's ex. She was just using Op's brother as the tool to destroy.

      RebeccaRebecca5 өдрийн өмнө
    • I agree with this not the 5/5 for rSlash but the rating for the lady you should never make a parent choose between their kids and their family I’d choose my child every time as long as he’s in the right

      cheeseman1115cheeseman11159 өдрийн өмнө
    • I came to the comments to be like TARA needed a butthole score! I’m glad to see this update :)

      Naomi HoffmanNaomi Hoffman9 өдрийн өмнө
  • I wonder if the husband in the last story ended up going to that stage play of a dinner. How much you want to bet MIL was going to stand up, make a speech in which the apology was her forgiving OP and husband for how they treated her, and playing martyr the rest of the night.

    Sharklover123100Sharklover1231004 цагийн өмнө
  • Tara can't disregard a persons' existence because of their bloodline. The brother sounds like a spineless man - forgive me for sounding harsh, but it's his wedding as much as it is hers, and he should put his foot down if he cared for OP and his nephew OP = 0/5 obviously Son = 0/5 he can't be punished for being alive thanks to an ex Brother = 0.5/5 - I can also have no backbone sometimes, so being weak only makes him a fraction of a butthole Tara = 3/5 - the maximum justifiable score for the reasons I have already stated.

    StarJokerStarJoker5 цагийн өмнө
  • Would exclude your own son to appease a grown toddler? Really? SMH

    blake 0788blake 07886 цагийн өмнө
  • rSlash sorry, but I have to disagree. This kid has never even met Tara and seeing him at her wedding will ruin her day because he is related to her enemy. What's next, he can't be at Christmas celebrations she at, or her kids better get better stuff from grandparents when she has kids. I mean really. I could see her not wanting the Mom, but a kid. Not to mention a kid she doesn't even know. I figure we will be reading about her in the entitled parent section. She is showing all the signs of a budding Karen.

    Lori EnglandLori England22 цагийн өмнө
  • My mum’s cousin had a “no child” wedding and I completely get it. So my mum didn’t go (my dad wasn’t around much) but they flipped out asking why not and she said “I’m looking after my kids” So the way I see it, rather than alienate 1 child which is horrible, she should just have a no child wedding. Comprise rather than making this 5 YEAR OLD feel that he isn’t welcome.

    Skull DinosaurSkull DinosaurӨдрийн өмнө
  • Loved the 5/5 rationalisation. 100% behind you on that one.

    originalsukioriginalsukiӨдрийн өмнө
  • Hold up Rslash you had a kid? I had no idea I stopped watching for a while and I'm happy to hear about this for you

    Sleepy's BoxSleepy's BoxӨдрийн өмнө
  • Tbh I think Tara was being a butthole you shouldn’t not like a kid because of who their parents are. My family dislikes my mother because of what happened with my bio dad but they never made me feel bad for who he is and what he did. Nobody ever made me feel bad or excluded me from things and they treated me normally. I would have been hurt if my family disliked me or excluded me from things based on who my bio dad is because I am not him and I don’t know him or love him

    Comedy LlamazComedy LlamazӨдрийн өмнө
  • Story 1: OP gets 1.5/5 buttholes for inflicting such an entitled, disloyal prick on his other employees.

    VenalitorVenalitorӨдрийн өмнө
  • The last one tho... that one was just terrible Also I don't think I've ever heard him swear

    Ryan SandhuRyan Sandhu2 өдрийн өмнө
  • With the swimming story, the sub would be an absolute moron to tell the actual coach what she did. Let's just say the actual employees tend to get livid when some random sub attempts to ruin their job, just so they can have an attitude moment. Here's the thing, if the actual coach says its okay the sub can go jump in the pool. That's no different than a store manager saying okay do something than the department manager going "NOOOOOO! IM IN CHARGE!" I've found most subs forget they they're not on an equal level with the person they're subbing for, in fact when people at my work have subs, and the sub complains about how the person they're filling for does something we all pretty much tell them, THEIR (the actual employee) ROUTE, THEIR RULES. If the actual coach lets you leave 10 minutes early, the sub can go take a dip in the pool in your stead.

    XerShadeXerShade3 өдрийн өмнө
  • Tara sorry 5 outta 5 buttholes, an NO narrator he should not swallow his pride its the bros day too not just taras, and that little boy IS family too hes the only one being excluded!?! After 10 yrs this supposed grown women is holding a grudge against a 5yr old and uncle is ok with this!?! What a JERK!! dad Do Not go without YOUR son,

    Marys still learningMarys still learning3 өдрийн өмнө
  • Papa rSlash vibes in that last story is the most wholesome thing I've heard in a while.

    MagentaRoseRedMagentaRoseRed4 өдрийн өмнө
  • 11:42 the brother is admitting that he views OP's son as not family.

    Martin MaynardMartin Maynard6 өдрийн өмнө
  • Why does the thumbnail look slightly like my dad?

    Redtail PlaysRedtail Plays6 өдрийн өмнө
  • The pool story sounds like it could be the inspo for some mystery thriller or horror movie. The neighbour keeps getting flashbacks of what happened to their kid when they hear the current neighbours playing that leads them to do some untoward things to the new family. I’m all seriousness though it’s really sad that happened and I hope both families are doing well

    NionyxNionyx6 өдрийн өмнө
  • You are not a butthole rSlash. 0/0 buttholes.

    Daniel Sigur IIIDaniel Sigur III6 өдрийн өмнө
  • To the story with the child who drowned There is a simple mistake: you said u understand if they cant move because they are poor evem tho they expect them to remove a probably 25 square metres 2 metres deep pool?

    SlimeCrafterLPSlimeCrafterLP7 өдрийн өмнө
  • I relate to the second story so hard. When I was in Junior year, I had to leave my parents house cause my brother and father were offended by my choices. I left, and still managed to be able to graduate. My brother still lives in my parents house rent free. He is 26. I had to leave at 16 to make room for the baby. I resent all of them to this day.

    Chloe LangChloe Lang7 өдрийн өмнө
  • I feel bad for that kid. Yes weddings are boring af (went to two and I just had to sit and stay still witch is a problem for me.) But if that lady didn't like who the kid was related to then that doesn't matter especially when she wouldn't see that person. Op did the right thing in saying they won't go. And for the mom who lost her kid I feel really bad for that family. If my grandmother did anything like that to me I would move away and block anyone who would try and make me apologize after I cuss her out. But people like that always show up after someone dies saying bad things about the person who died or people around them. (This has happened to my family before)

    Doodlefox .0.5Doodlefox .0.58 өдрийн өмнө
  • Here’s my approach on a couple of these. Tara I would say “I get that you hate ex and that’s fair, but my son is not ex. He doesn’t deserve to be punished for his mother’s failures.” As for the MiL, I would go to the dinner on the off chance she’s genuinely remorseful. However, it would only be on the condition that hubby agree to go no-contact permanently if she ever pulls anything stupid again. Whether it’s at the dinner or ten years later, she acts up one more time, no discussion, no debate, all contact ends then and there.

    Holly HartwickHolly Hartwick8 өдрийн өмнө
    • @XerShade - Hence the caveat. Extending an olive branch but not extending unearned trust. She would get one chance to prove her remorse is genuine. She apologized but the words can ring hollow. People change but they often have a longer road to prove it.

      Holly HartwickHolly Hartwick3 өдрийн өмнө
    • The issue though is she had all that time to try and reach out, and only did so when she got excited about having a new grand child to replace the one that died. She's not sorry for what she did, she's sorry she's never going to be in the "replacement's" life.

      XerShadeXerShade3 өдрийн өмнө
  • The fact you dropped an f-bomb.. I usually listen while doing other things but that made me freeze in place and pay attention. Damn, rSlash

    Tiffany SjogrenTiffany Sjogren8 өдрийн өмнө
  • They started charging her rent for her 18th birthday? When I turned 18 I got a new laptop

    Isabel GeeIsabel Gee8 өдрийн өмнө
  • You know rSlash be upset when he doesn't censor a cuss word

    1tantomile1tantomile8 өдрийн өмнө
  • As a father who has lost a child do to, I refuse to call it a birth defect, a health issue he was born with, I can say that I understand this Mothers pain. Losing a child for any reason is horrible enough, but to have someone verbally assault you at that child's funeral is beyond horrifying. If that had happened at my son's funeral there would have been another one soon after and I would have gone to prison. I wouldn't have allowed anyone to say that to the Mother of my children, at my son's funeral no less, and live to regret it. And I wouldn't have cared who that person was, even if they were my parent. OP if you read this comment, keep that Hag away from your family, she well never let you forget that you wronged her even though you didn't and she is the one at fault.

    Jason MorrisJason Morris9 өдрийн өмнө
  • Wow, last lady made R/slash drop the F bomb O.o I feel like that translates into a 6 out of 5 buttholes. And honestly that lady deserves it.

    UrrargUrrarg10 өдрийн өмнө
  • What is she, in high-school? How can she be so petty and cruel to her innocent nephew and put a wedge between brothers? I get bad vibes about this lady. I am not involved nor do I know her, but she’s a petty and I have no respect for this arrested adolescent.

    Eddie LewEddie Lew10 өдрийн өмнө
  • Okay Tara is taking out her anger on the kid of a girl who some one liked better than Tara if he did like her maybe she would not be at this wedding also it’s not the kids fault that he has a mom that he doesn’t Even see that often got liked by a guy

    Brooke HogleBrooke Hogle10 өдрийн өмнө

    SansNotSusSansNotSus11 өдрийн өмнө
  • I can't believe the title rslash chose was about the cheating dad, and not the funeral. Wouldn't have waited almost a month to click it...

    Wisco KnightWisco Knight11 өдрийн өмнө
  • uhh Idk, about the one with the kid in new york moving to colorado with her brother. Like I don't see what's wrong with what their parents are doing as long as they're using the money for utilities for utilities, and are doing the same thing as the brother with the $500. I think its giving the daughter a sense of responsibility. But the reasons the parents are giving are kind of stupid, there are way better reasons they could've given which makes them a little bit of an a-hole. Sure what the brother is doing is nice but traveling that far away while still in high school? I don't know

    xox Merelynxox Merelyn12 өдрийн өмнө
  • For the last story if someone said that to me there’s thing that’s called a shotgun. There is also this thing know as ammo. Also headshot

    CptBlueHawk57CptBlueHawk5713 өдрийн өмнө
    • Head shot is too quick.

      XerShadeXerShade3 өдрийн өмнө
  • the swimming coach story is the coach's fault as an adult with a job and goals for a new car your job is far more important than sports the coach was just freaking out because she isn't able to control op at all

    thelonegunnerthelonegunner13 өдрийн өмнө
  • the first story is a total NTA he's not the owner of the business he's a worker who's breaking rules on purpose and then the cheating mother says he's a loyal guy when she was disloyal to her own husband op was the boss and he sets the rules in the business and he can fire anyone for breaking all those rules and since the stepfather was acting like the boss he needed be sacked

    thelonegunnerthelonegunner13 өдрийн өмнө
  • I’m confused about that swimming question… Is there a reason you can’t teach swimming in a swimsuit? Why on earth do you have to shower and change clothes to teach swimming? I’m a little bit confused about that seems like something you don’t really need to do I don’t see any reason why you can’t just teach in your swimsuit which means you don’t have to shower and you don’t have to change

    Robert CarterRobert Carter14 өдрийн өмнө
  • R/ the wedding story you are totally wrong Tera is a butthole and he should either be able to take his son or not go

    Clayton ParrisClayton Parris14 өдрийн өмнө
  • the swimming story: how much you wanna bet that if the sub went to ops reg coach the reg coach would tear the sub a new one, lol

    Dante BlackDante Black14 өдрийн өмнө
  • To the op on the swim team, you were so grown up. That woman let her power go to her head, she doesn't get to control when you leave an optional extra curricular activity for your mandatory job. I wish I had your bravery!

    DragonHeartDragonHeart15 өдрийн өмнө
  • You know you fucked up when you make rslash swear

    ran scorpioran scorpio15 өдрийн өмнө
  • I disagree with Rslash if I was OP I wouldn’t have gone to the wedding as well. Tara needs to grow the f up and stop trying to get one up on someone who at this point in their life don’t care about you by excluding their son. And I say OP brother is being an AH regardless if this is Tara’s wedding she would have to interact with his nephew at some point and to me it seems he’s willing to sacrifice a relationship with his brother and nephew because Tara is throwing a tantrum. If she acts like this imagine how she would be in future events that include OP’s son. What is the kid suppose to stay home from those to only satisfy her needs?

    MusicGirl881MusicGirl88115 өдрийн өмнө
  • Rslash saying 'fucking' gives off the same raw intensity as when the bully gets his ass kicked for picking on the silent kid too much. It's absolutely jarring and amazing to witness.

    FranticWolfiePupFranticWolfiePup15 өдрийн өмнө
  • RSlash: *Angry Dadbear moment and swearing* My body: haha, I’m in _danger._

    JayceeJaycee16 өдрийн өмнө
  • Tara needs to grow up! That child is not involved in her past. The fact that his brothers just tell him to get over it just shows that they don’t care about the child at all. I wouldn’t go to the wedding. It’s Taras fault that op wouldn’t be there.

    Taylor KennedyTaylor Kennedy16 өдрийн өмнө
  • Yes Tara sounds like a petty grunt, I would have not have gone to the wedding and probably would have withdrawn from communication with them.

    Patriot DadPatriot Dad17 өдрийн өмнө
  • I respect your opinion rslash about the wedding one, but I disagree. Yes it is her wedding but she is being purposely vindictive to a child who has done nothing to her. And that child is going to be her nephew, she's not going to change her behavior in how she treats him after the wedding is over. Especially if she gets away with excluding him now. She to me is an ahole. And should understand the rifts she is creating in the family because of HS drama. She needs to get over herself and grow up. Her 'sworn enemy' (real mature btw) isn't there and no one is suggesting that she invite her, don't take her anger out on a kid.

    dreamincolor1dreamincolor117 өдрийн өмнө
  • Comments my sister got: "Your daughter got cancer because you don't go to church. This is all your fault." "Your doctor's daughter is a moron, and you're a horrible mother for listening to her. The cure for cancer is organic carrots, and you should have your children taken away for letting her get chemo!" (I wish I was joking) My niece was BORN with cancer. It wasn't diagnosed until she was a year and a half old, and it was stage 4 neuroblastoma. So much chemo, blood transfusions, hospital stays, and a major surgery... but she's 7 and has been in remission more than 4 years. She has some cool scars and developed animal allergies, but she mostly developed a way mature level of empathy at such a young age. Her brother, oh man... he stepped up at 4 to take care of things and make sure everyone was taken care of, and he hasn't stepped down yet (he's 10 now).

    Jacquelyn SmithJacquelyn Smith17 өдрийн өмнө
  • R slash, you’re wrong about the last story. The MIL doesn’t qualify as human at this point.

    4Mobius24Mobius217 өдрийн өмнө
  • Just reading the TITLE of the second one makes OP have -24 buttholes but the PARENTS on the other hand... is there a number bigger than infinity?

    Seth DumaineSeth Dumaine17 өдрийн өмнө
  • The pregnant lady thing... it sounds like Becky was a good, normal person, but after she got knocked up, she went crazy. Hormones can do that, women can be level-headed and normal people, but the moment they get a baby, the world revolves around them, either because of hormones, or just general insanity. I hope being told no and having things lain out how she isn't the center of the multi-verse will do well to help her mellow out, even to the point of being manipulative and abusive by claiming the OP doesn't love their step-son.

    Seval AlrikSeval Alrik17 өдрийн өмнө
  • I usually agree with r/Slash, but with regards to the woman wanting to exclude her future sister-in-law's child from her wedding, this can be indicative of how she'll behave in the future. I would choose to not attend with my child if I were in the person's position.

    wolskeskwolskesk17 өдрийн өмнө
  • Slash...you brought me to the point of tears with what you said at the of this video about this 5/5 butthole MIL... As someone that has also lost a neonatal baby due to completely uncontrollable genetic/medical issues that were both a total surprise and later complete shock and emergency.. then a downhill descent to ultimate tragic, extremely sudden and impossible to prevent death of my baby son... (Rest in peace, baby Lucas 💜) What you said, and the raw and visceral certainty and genuine emotions your tone of voice was... Like.. that.. that hit home, to the core of my soul and I genuinely appreciate you for being, just you, and existing, and for how you defended this poor poor angel baby momma.. And congratulations on the birth of your own little baby, rSlash!! What a wonderful father you will make!! 😊 And also, I'm so so so happy for the mom for her current rainbow baby pregnancy and wish her and her newest growing litte one all the absolute and possible best. 💜💜

    Lena CarlileLena Carlile17 өдрийн өмнө
  • As someone who has a congenital heart condition, who’s parents nearly lost me several times due to complications and surgeries, I was so disgusted by that last story. The fact that her mother in law told her it was her fault that her baby died, is the most disgusting thing I’ve ever heard. It is NEVER the parent’s fault. Losing a child is a feeling that I can’t even imagine.

    Evangeline AllenEvangeline Allen17 өдрийн өмнө
  • uh- no. the tara story pissed me the fuck off. most who say tara was justified are thinking of this as a one-time thing. once tara and op’s brother get married, jason will be tara’s nephew, that’s clear. but if she excluded jason from her wedding, imagine what else she’ll exclude him from. birthday parties. family reunions. holidays. graduations. op did the right thing by not letting tara walk all over him and his son. if he didn’t stand up for jason, this behavior would’ve continued and been enabled. I don’t care that it’s tara’s sPeCiAL dAy, excluding a 5 year old CHILD from an important family event because of something that happened a long ass time ago is disgusting. imagine how the poor kid would feel. EDIT: also why would you want to extend an olive branch to someone like that???? I guarantee those two are gonna get divorced in the future, hopefully sooner rather than later

    AngieAngie19 өдрийн өмнө
  • Nay talk shit get your jaw broken

    dark bladedark blade19 өдрийн өмнө
  • I got chills when he swore- his anger is literally terrifying-

    Shadow Gangsta275Shadow Gangsta27520 өдрийн өмнө
  • I usually agree with your summaries, but fuck Tara - she deserves at least 3 butt-holes for that level of pettiness, also the brother gets at least 1. She will definitely cheat on him within 2 years.

    Dave HeavenDave Heaven20 өдрийн өмнө
  • That last story filled me with an not insignificant amount of rage. Your f bomb is so justified r/slash...

    CreeValCreeVal20 өдрийн өмнө
  • Wedding story: yes the woman is wrong here. Not inviting a child because you had beef with some chick who’s not in the picture anymore is just plain stupid. Not to mention how would the kid feel being excluded from his family just like that? If my parent would leave me while my cousins went, I would be bitter for a very long time

    Kira KuroeKira Kuroe21 өдрийн өмнө
  • If it was me I would use 5/5 more often *but* I would use for example 6/5 for these kind of posts

    ShadowSenseiShadowSensei21 өдрийн өмнө
  • Idk I'd tell the parents why do I have to get rid of my new pool because you weren't watching your kid? If you don't like it then sell your house and move, or put on some headphones/earplugs. If you really want to be fucked up just say "make a new one and teach it how to swim this time"

    Juan Manuel Calderon ValverdeJuan Manuel Calderon Valverde22 өдрийн өмнө
  • Tara is an adult, that's a 5 year old child. Is she just not going to let him ever come over to her house? Meet his cousins? 4 out of 5 buttholes for her

    Miranda StuartMiranda Stuart22 өдрийн өмнө
  • I froze when I hear fukin life. Lol Papa bear here also, and I was like yup I would of said the same way. Still didn't expect it from you though lol

    510Stallion510Stallion22 өдрийн өмнө
  • OMG the story about the wedding! My son is developmentally disabled, but he was always the most well behaved child with the kindest heart anyone ever knew. When he was 10 (this is 27 years ago) my cousin in Calif. was getting married. I live near Seattle now. I got a call from my VERY entitled Aunt telling me to expect an invitation, but explaining there were "no kids" invited to the wedding, (Except 1 cousin who was 11 months older than my son) so I couldn't bring my son. I said I can't leave him up here in WA by himself. and if little cousin is included, he should be too. ..besides he wanted to visit his grandparents and other family members. She told me to find one of my friends from Calif (i grew up there and had only moved a year prior) to watch him. I explained that it was 3 months away, and I could try to make arrangements with a friend, but what happens if i get there, the friend has an emergency, now I don't have a sitter because everyone is going to the wedding, so I just wasted money on plane tickets etc. She was FURIOUS and told me to just figure it out. I politely declined, saying "I don't want to put anyone in that position, or take a chance that plans fall through." She then called my mother, complaining that "Your daughter was an absolute B*tch" to me. Mom, well aware of her sister's entitled nature and dramatic behavior, took my side on it. I didn't realize till much later that she wanted to exclude my son because of his disability, and that there had been MANY children present. My cousin asked me several years later why I wasn't at his wedding, and I explained what his mother had said. He was LIVID. Said there was no reason she should have excluded my son. I was in Calif visiting once, and caught her whispering about my "R word" son. She had always doted on him till he started having trouble in school and we discovered the issue. So now I realized, as soon as she heard of his learning problem, she labeled him as inferior and never even asked about him. I also noticed when we saw her in other visits, how she reacted to my son like he was contagious or something, and avoided him. I stopped speaking to her entirely for the next 15 years till she passed away.

    Lynda ShawLynda Shaw24 өдрийн өмнө
  • Lmao. No. Tara gets Atleast 2/5 buttholes for bullying a CHILD. Jason did absolutely nothing to her. You don't blame a child for a parents beef.

    Melissa O'BrienMelissa O'Brien24 өдрийн өмнө
  • Jesus..when rslash starts cussing you know its BAD

    U KnowU Know24 өдрийн өмнө
  • Another good video by rslash.

    Rayna MarshallRayna Marshall24 өдрийн өмнө
  • I stopped my art project when I heard rSlash say fuck because I had to process it. Holy shit, in the 2-3 years I've been watching him I don't think he's ever once said it.

    MeadowMaidenMeadowMaiden24 өдрийн өмнө
  • New here but very pleased with the content. It gives me something to hear while I work

    Peter GoodePeter Goode24 өдрийн өмнө
  • The last story, if the mother was drinking/smoking/doing drugs during the pregnancy, that is blamable. If the mother did not follow the doctor's treatment plans, and instead tried spiritual/homeopathic/spirit rocks/essential oils as treatment, the mother is to blame. Otherwise the mother in law is a piece of crap. I know the above is an edge case, but it happens more than you think. Regardless of all of that, the funeral outburst and supposed lies, if true, are unacceptable - but something tells me this story is missing a lot of context.

    nuBnuB24 өдрийн өмнө
  • Family happens to be one of the biggest cheaters, swindlers, and con-men in terms of bussiness decisions that affect another person in the family.

    Steward of AutumnSteward of Autumn24 өдрийн өмнө
  • everybody gangsta till he pulls out the 6/5 buttholes

    Willow TreeWillow Tree24 өдрийн өмнө
  • Last story: It's so easy for people to pull the forgiveness card when they're the ones who's a) aren't involved or b) isn't the victim. Let that woman rot on the hill she died on and lay buried under the weight of the damage her actions caused.

    michamochamichamocha24 өдрийн өмнө
  • You know, i deserve a 5 out of 5 butthole too. Before my grandma passed away due to liver failure, i took her money in the bank and security box and pocketed for her funeral. You know when they say you can't take money to the grave? I made sure my grandma could in this case, take that suckers! That money aint going to the casino if I had anything to do about it!

    Bcat BBBcat BB25 өдрийн өмнө
  • Sorry rslash but you are wrong with Tara. She’s a 1/5 buttholes. She’s discriminating against a kid for something that’s not his fault. It’s not like he’s an unholy terror or something. It may be her special day, but causing a rift in a family because she isn’t adult enough to realize that a child’s mother’s transgressions don’t belong to him is ridiculous. This won’t end at weddings. It will be family get togethers, vacations, etc. with how many Karen stories you read on here I’m surprised you don’t see it coming.

    af22manaf22man25 өдрийн өмнө
  • Nah dont go to the wedding.

    medinaw94medinaw9425 өдрийн өмнө
  • I agree with op. 5 out of 5 for the MIL. I also give 1 out of 5 to anyone who is bugging op and expecting her to "get over it". Especially sense you know the apology isn't sincere, it because she wants to butt into your business with the new baby. If it was sincere, it would have happened before 1.5 years and before the news of new baby got out.

    Chris ManciniChris Mancini25 өдрийн өмнө
  • I agree that becky is the butthole. I don't care about your reasons, being a butthole is never ok and there are no excuses for it, including being pregnant.

    Chris ManciniChris Mancini25 өдрийн өмнө
  • Disagree on the wedding situation. That child is family, and excluding one child when all others get to go is completely unreasonable and will no doubt cause more problems later on; whose to say they won't try to exclude the child in future again?

    xTitchxxTitchx25 өдрийн өмнө
  • Congrats on the baby!

    Cassandra HernandezCassandra Hernandez25 өдрийн өмнө
  • That 2end person is a good human

    Vlad SkullcrusherVlad Skullcrusher26 өдрийн өмнө
  • About that 5 yr old nephew and the bride..... she needs to get over herself for real for real!! If the family allows her to do this now then every family event she wil be a C and tell the CHILD not to come, excluding him from everything .... HELLO it's a child anf she, she is meant to be grown- an adult plus it's the child of the brother not the fuking ex girlfriend!!! FFS !! How can anyone give that any oxygen! The dad shouldn't go ! Point blank!! If someone said my kids couldn't come ( and the other kids in the fam could ) i would say " ok have an awesome day".

    Rowie LeeRowie Lee26 өдрийн өмнө
  • 20:33 dang- hes a n g r y and i mean *angry*

    Wat Dis ??Wat Dis ??26 өдрийн өмнө
  • Not only do I have kids but I also have grandkids. Thank goodness they are all alive and healthy, but if someone said something like that at a funeral, I would do my best to beat the ever loving snot out of them. I’m saying snot because the word I really want to say would probably be slapped. Hearing rslash cuss only reflected what I was feeling. Papa bear, indeed.

    vegasrenievegasrenie26 өдрийн өмнө
  • WTF is wrong with Tara? Is she going to demand that the kid be excluded from every family event bc of a high school thing? "Oh, we're hosting Thanksgiving this year, but your son can't come, because I hated his mom who no one talks to anymore."

    Raybelle AndersonRaybelle Anderson27 өдрийн өмнө
  • I totally agree with cutting someone out for blaming you if your child died through illness or some other uncontrollable reason. That mother-in-law should go to hell.

    David CundyDavid Cundy27 өдрийн өмнө
  • 13:00 I love the way your thought process works here, and by that I mean I absolutely hate that mind set. First off, it's both the husband's and the bride's big day unless you're trying to say that the bride's getting married, but the husband isn't. Also, support in a relationship needs to be a two-way street. The husband supports the wife AND the wife supports the husband. This just reminds me of the post where a wife was getting annoyed because the planners were trying to leave her husband out of the planning stage even though it's not her big day, it's THEIR big day. Also, if I was a parent and my brother said that my child couldn't come to his wedding because his wife didn't him to come while the other guest were allowed to bring their kids, I would have done the same thing OP did. You're stating that your own flesh and blood means less to you than what your soon-to-be SIL wants, and that's pretty fucked up. If a child can't rely on their parents to stand up for them, then who can they rely on?

    Pencil TwistPencil Twist27 өдрийн өмнө
  • 1:15 That sounds like a pretty easy discrimination lawsuit to me. The only reason you had to fire them was because you disliked them on a personal level that had nothing to do with their job, not because of any work issues you'd experience from them. I'm not a lawyer or anything though, so it's easily possible that I'm wrong here.

    Pencil TwistPencil Twist27 өдрийн өмнө
  • He actually cursed withiut beping it

    regie renoldregie renold27 өдрийн өмнө
  • The fathers side of the family was completely unreasonable because they took sides in a fight that is between op and mother in law but also the father should of kept himself from saying anything because overall he was the one to feed his family indigested remarks from his mother in law and also how he didn’t try and intervene to try and calm the fight a bit to allow talk space the only time he had a proper discussion was when he was offered a way out in the easiest way meaning he didn’t quite care about the way op was handling the conflict but the mother in law stirred the pot willingly she looked for the conflict then when everything started calm a little she sent a invite to op to go to a dinner and that she’ll apologise in my opinion she’s a cold-hearted mother who doesn’t care for the carrier but only for ops child she tried to get back into op’s life with a simple Sorry that could never happen because for one she was the one to choose to berate op into not helping her child even though she had complete no control then she went to even further to go to op’s funeral for her son just to dig a depressed hole for you then when the next child was coming she thought she could of find a easy way out of the conflict she built that isn’t right I give op 0/5 buttholes the father 1/5 buttholes because he chosed unwillingly to put salt in the soup and I give mother-in-law 5/5 buttholes in my opinion the rating is justifiable in every way .

    UnitHelixUnitHelix27 өдрийн өмнө
  • You know rSlash is pissed when he doesn't censor his cusswords and gives a 5/5 butthole score!

    Uthman BakshUthman Baksh27 өдрийн өмнө
  • Omg the rage in the last post was something I've never heard on this channel. He swore too! I'm here for it.

    Ellen SmithEllen Smith27 өдрийн өмнө
  • Should I tell other women who are trying for a baby they can't have a child because I lost 3 babies already?

    Roxie BlazeRoxie Blaze28 өдрийн өмнө
  • An option would be making it a kids free wedding, no one person is excluded then. Shouldve maybe done that in the first place instead of uninviting a kid for the sins of their parents. another option: a kids only area on the venue, far enough away from the wedding, with caregivers to watch over them.

    Gina the CookieGina the Cookie28 өдрийн өмнө
  • Damn, rslash said fuck, that’s when you know it’s serious.

    Queen Of DiscordQueen Of Discord28 өдрийн өмнө
  • rslash saying "I wouldn't talk to that person for the rest of my f*cking life" sent chills down my spine that being said I think 10/5 buttholes sums up that woman

    animecheezeanimecheeze28 өдрийн өмнө
  • So is it just me or that last story was read before in a different post 😅

    Tim ಠ_ಠ Banana Cheese CakeTim ಠ_ಠ Banana Cheese Cake28 өдрийн өмнө
  • Enough with that "her" wedding bullshit.

    HlD3HlD328 өдрийн өмнө
  • That last story felt like when your mom says I’m not mad I’m disappointed but he was mad I don’t know how you do that but all I know is that he will do anything for his new baby

    Random ManRandom Man28 өдрийн өмнө
  • Rslash dropping the F bomb. Thumbs up

    Man InBlackMan InBlack28 өдрийн өмнө